a bit of an announcement.

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hiya readers. so, as some of you may know, my father has Parkinson’s disease and has not been doing as well as we might have hoped lately, which means i need to jump in and help with his care from time to time. this is not exactly creatively inspiring, and is somewhat exhausting, but we’re all doing our best and my family has been great.

so it came to my attention last night, that my head was doing a little exploding, and it might be time for a little s.o.s. call. so i rounded up some of our blogger troops and will be having some guests posts drop in now and then to provide me with some back-up. i just wanted to let you know, so you were aware of what was going on. i will still be here everyday, (or almost everyday unless there is an emergency to tend to), but definitely blogging away as per usual. i just felt i needed a little help, and not a one of these kind and amazing people turned me down. you guys rock. so enjoy the ‘viva la difference’ and what they have to add to sfgirlbybay, and remember — i’m not going anywhere. and, if you have anything you want to contribute, drop me a line. thanks one and all, for all your continued support in a bit of a tough time. i do adore and appreciate you all. love, v.

[ charming and somewhat telling photograph courtesy of Kristine May. ]

48 Comments

  1. Posted November 4, 2009 at 8:03 pm | Permalink

    wishing you and your family all the best Victoria!

  2. Posted November 4, 2009 at 8:05 pm | Permalink

    thanks, lovely christine. :)

    but don’t worry, i’m not going anywhere!

  3. Posted November 4, 2009 at 8:06 pm | Permalink

    thinking of you Victoria

  4. Posted November 4, 2009 at 8:08 pm | Permalink

    so sorry to hear about your dad. he is very lucky to such a caring daughter. you and your fam are in my thoughts.

  5. Posted November 4, 2009 at 8:33 pm | Permalink

    Hang in there and I hope you’re dad is doing much better. Don’t worry we’re not going anywhere, take all of the time you need.

  6. Posted November 4, 2009 at 8:37 pm | Permalink

    thank you all so much for your kind support. i’m just a little burnt out at the moment, but am not going anywhere and will be still posting everyday!!

    had to send in for back-up just in case my head really does explode. it’ll be fun to mix it up and see some new blogger’s posts! you’ll – they’ll be good ones!

  7. Posted November 4, 2009 at 9:01 pm | Permalink

    All the best Victoria – my neighbor is going through the tough decision regarding the care of her husband who has MS. Stay strong and make sure to take care of yourself too.

  8. Posted November 4, 2009 at 9:53 pm | Permalink

    I’m sending up prayers for your Dad, Victoria. You’re a wonderful daughter. We’re here for you.

  9. Kelly
    Posted November 4, 2009 at 10:03 pm | Permalink

    Thank you for letting us know what’s going on behind the scenes. Thoughts for you & your family — it’s hard & scary to be a daughter sometimes, I know.

  10. Posted November 4, 2009 at 10:12 pm | Permalink

    good luck with your tough times and thanks for filling us in!

  11. Posted November 4, 2009 at 10:17 pm | Permalink

    you are wonderful. sending you and your family lots of love.

    and looking forward to lots of good stuff, from you and from your fabulous friends. xo!

  12. Posted November 4, 2009 at 10:27 pm | Permalink

    Hi V, thinking of you…do what you need to keep a good measure of balance and sanity in your life… no head’s exploding please :)

    My dad has Parkinson’s too. He’s actually flying up here to Seattle tomorrow from the bay area for a Parkinson’s conference on Saturday.

    Hugs & good energy being sent your way. xoxo

  13. Posted November 4, 2009 at 11:12 pm | Permalink

    We all of course understand.. caring for our families is so important. Hang there.. it’s such a long road! Hugs and love- b

  14. Posted November 4, 2009 at 11:34 pm | Permalink

    Good on you for recognising you needed to do something BEFORE your head exploded. It looks like you have a pretty head so best to keep it intact!

  15. Posted November 4, 2009 at 11:43 pm | Permalink

    Ah, I love how supportive the blogging community can be! Make sure you take care of yourself in between taking care of your dad! Looking forward to seeing all the guest contributions :)

  16. Posted November 5, 2009 at 12:17 am | Permalink

    sounds like a great option ~ and way too much juggling otherwise. hope you get a little time out for yourself somewhere too :)
    belinda

  17. Posted November 5, 2009 at 12:58 am | Permalink

    Dear Victoria, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I understand that is really hard to experience these sort of things, and it is important to remember to also take care of yourself. I wish everything good for you and your family.

  18. Posted November 5, 2009 at 1:31 am | Permalink

    Good for you for helping out.. that’s wonderful!! Sending positive thoughts to your family!

  19. Posted November 5, 2009 at 1:44 am | Permalink

    What you ‘re doing is great! Not many people can say that for their children. And giving love is much better than any possible treatment. My best wishes to you and your family.

  20. Posted November 5, 2009 at 3:45 am | Permalink

    My heart is with you dear Victoria.

  21. Posted November 5, 2009 at 4:12 am | Permalink

    I’m so sorry your dad isn’t doing well, Victoria. Just know that you have many who are thinking of you and your family.

  22. Posted November 5, 2009 at 4:14 am | Permalink

    Blessings to you and strength as you care for your family.

  23. Posted November 5, 2009 at 4:50 am | Permalink

    sending the warmest thoughts your way, victoria.

  24. Posted November 5, 2009 at 5:25 am | Permalink

    Take sometime for yourself, we will all be here awaiting your return. Hugs and Kisses for you and your family at this time.

  25. Posted November 5, 2009 at 5:47 am | Permalink

    Hang in there Victoria, I’m sending good thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

  26. Posted November 5, 2009 at 6:10 am | Permalink

    We don’t know each other personally, but I want you to know how much I LOVE reading your blog. It’s so inspiring!
    I’m so so sorry about your dad. I just went through taking care of my mom with cancer and I know first hand what it’s like to try to work, take care of someone and have any energy left.
    These kinds of situations make you stronger and you’ll be surprised at how much you can handle. I will say a prayer for you today. :)
    Juliet

  27. Susie
    Posted November 5, 2009 at 6:47 am | Permalink

    Victoria-Thinking of you and sending you some extra strength. I am sorry to hear your Dad isn’t doing that well. I just got back from the NY Marathon where Team Fox had 220 runners that raised over $600,000 for Parkinson’s research. I am convinced they will find a cure. Thanks again for your help in my fundraising of over $4,000. Remember to take care of you!!! Susie

  28. Posted November 5, 2009 at 7:07 am | Permalink

    I’m sending good thoughts and energy all day, everyday, to you and your Dad, Victoria… xoxoxoxo

  29. Posted November 5, 2009 at 7:29 am | Permalink

    sending lots of good thoughts and warm hugs your way.

  30. Posted November 5, 2009 at 7:49 am | Permalink

    I will still be reading regularly!

  31. Posted November 5, 2009 at 8:31 am | Permalink

    Wow -thanks you guys for all the supportive and kind messages. I was just feeling a little overwhelmed and didn’t want to disappoint you guys with dull little stories, so just called in for some great back-up!

    I’ll still be here everyday – no worries!!!

  32. Posted November 5, 2009 at 8:47 am | Permalink

    i’ll be thinking of you and your dad, victoria — take care of yourself, too.

  33. Posted November 5, 2009 at 8:51 am | Permalink

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your father. I’m sending you a big *HUG* and hope that you get some time to take of yourself too.

  34. Posted November 5, 2009 at 9:05 am | Permalink

    also sending you good thoughts! My grandfather lost his battle with Parkinson’s and I know how much it takes a toll on a family! Remember that there is hope and light at the end of the tunnel. xo

  35. Posted November 5, 2009 at 9:22 am | Permalink

    Good luck with everything! Best wishes to your dad!

  36. Posted November 5, 2009 at 10:08 am | Permalink

    wishing you and your family healing and strength! be sure to take care of yourself, too! best wishes.

  37. Posted November 5, 2009 at 10:20 am | Permalink

    Good luck to you and your family! And take care of yourself. (I know just how you feel. I’m taking care of my mom right now.)

  38. Nora
    Posted November 5, 2009 at 11:01 am | Permalink

    Sending good wishes your way! We’re all thinking of you.

  39. Posted November 5, 2009 at 11:09 am | Permalink

    hope the best for your daddy…

  40. Posted November 5, 2009 at 2:28 pm | Permalink

    i completely relate to your situation – my mother also has PD, and i know how stressful it gets. good luck with everything.

  41. Laura Blough
    Posted November 5, 2009 at 3:15 pm | Permalink

    My grandmother had PD so you have my best wishes and good thoughts. PD is a very tough disease, right up there with Alzheimer’s.

  42. Jenny
    Posted November 5, 2009 at 5:12 pm | Permalink

    Sorry to hear your Dad is sick, Victoria. Glad your family is in it with you and you can share the load.
    take care of yourself.

  43. joan
    Posted November 5, 2009 at 5:21 pm | Permalink

    Best of everything to you!!

  44. Shayla
    Posted November 6, 2009 at 5:21 am | Permalink

    Hey Victoria! Thank you for sharing your story with us and we will be praying for your Dad. My own father was just diagnosed with Parkinson’s so this one strikes close to home. Sending lots of hugs from snowy Ontario!

  45. kathy
    Posted November 6, 2009 at 9:08 am | Permalink

    sending prayers for good health, happiness, peace of mind and peace of heart and much sweet time together for you and your family.

    kathy

  46. Posted November 6, 2009 at 12:21 pm | Permalink

    victoria, thank you for sharing with us your father’s condition. sending you and your family positive thoughts and warm wishes,
    valerie

  47. Posted November 6, 2009 at 12:35 pm | Permalink

    thank you so much to all of you. you’re making me cry though, so cut that out!!

    and to everyone whose had ailing parents and grandparents, my warmest, positive thoughts are with you. it’s something a lot of us have to go through so it’s comforting to share with you all. everybody take good care of you, as well as your loved ones. xo, v.

  48. Posted November 8, 2009 at 4:03 pm | Permalink

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time, Victoria. You take whatever time you need and know that all of us will be here for you.
    -Jennifer

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