thoughts for a friday.


hello, my trusty readers. happy friday. this post is going to be a bit more personal than i might usually get here, because there’s a topic that keeps coming up among some of my internet pals, fellow bloggers, and real-life friends. i think it warrants discussion, because there’s a trend out there that may, or may not, be really bumming you out. yes, you personally,... 
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disappearing act.


hi guys. i do hope you will forgive me, but i am deeply in need of a day of rest, so no thoughts for a friday today — except the one that says “take care of yourself”. every muscle in my body aches and i have been working seven days a week for far too long without a holiday in — well honestly, i don’t remember my last holiday — a clear sign... 
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sfgirlbybay is hiring.


UPDATE:i am happy to announce i have found my editorial assistant. thank you so much to everyone who submitted a resume. i have written back to each of you by now and so appreciated your thoughtful submissions. Hey there readers! Sfgirlbybay is seeking a rockstar to hire for a Remote/work from home position, with some ocassional office hours — either working from my... 
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what to say?


so, i’m going to assume that there isn’t one of us unaffected by the tragedies in newtown last week. i doubt that i am alone in not exactly knowing what to say. i know i’m sad, grieving, i know i’m angry and maybe even a little afraid. my heart mourns for the victims and the multitude of lives ruined by the events at that elementary school. i hear the... 
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the bedlam of beefy.


“Home is… well, where the heart is. And, like they always say, the kitchen is the heart of the home. A bit cliché? Sure. But, I believe, as true a statement as it ever was. No matter where I’ve lived or how small the kitchens have been (and some have been mighty small), they’ve all consistently been the place where everyone gravitates and gathers.... 
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